Friday, December 28, 2012

Grace Notes No. 7

"How many cares one loses when one decides not to
be something but to be someone."
Coco Chanel
 
 
 
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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES
 
"Everything falls into place as soon as we find our personal style. Being comfortable with ourselves is an accomplishment."

"Who do you know who is pure and true to their unique spirit? As we think about the new year, let's plan lots of space for reflection and time for the work we love. It's worth whatever sacrifices are necessary."
 
Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.
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What's your personal style? Mine is all about color (surprise! surprise!). As I anticipate the New Year - wow, 2013 has such a nice ring - I look forward to continuing to grow personally and to fully embracing and appreciating my life, loves and work. What are you hoping to accomplish in the new year?
 

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Grace Notes No. 6

"Never hating, never resisting, never contesting,
she is simply always learning and being."
Lao-Tzu

 
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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES
 
"Open yourself up to learning and being. Is your house decorated? We used ribbons as our theme this year, putting bows on our wreath and tree. What is the theme of your decorations?"

"What have you learned from your friends and neighbors about their traditions and religious observations? Embrace all influences and rituals and celebrate love and joy together."
 
Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.
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This is what life is all about - learning, being, accepting and embracing. Our trip to the Middle East earlier this year opened my heart and mind to people, cultures and religions I knew very little about before. I grew so much during this experience. What are you doing to learn about other traditions and cultures? Please share... I seek to always continue to learn and grow. 


Friday, December 7, 2012

Grace Notes No. 5

"A man's style is as much a part of him as his face,
his figure, or the rhythm of his pulse."
Francois Fenelon
 
 
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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES
 
"Our style becomes more flamboyant this season when we festoon everything with garlands, ornaments and ribbons. Our home will reflect our exuberance for life and the holiday spirit."
 

"We develop a personal style that really does mirror our soul. If we pick up a style that is not our own, we will pay dearly by being a stranger in our own house. Carry on in your own way with your own loving traditions and your style will be refreshing."
 
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I completely agree with this. Whenever I am tempted to dress or decorate in a way that is not my own style it just doesn't feel right. My style is pretty classic but I always like to have some kind of twist, both in my personal style and my decorating style. I am excited to get our tree this weekend. I usually keep our holiday decor pretty much the same every year but maybe this year I'll look for something new to add that is just the right dose of classic yet current. Maybe some sparkle? How about you? What is your style?


Related posts: Grace Notes No. 1, Grace Notes No. 2, Grace Notes No. 3, Grace Notes No. 4

Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.

Monday, December 3, 2012

Grace Notes No. 4

"Contentment consisteth not in adding more fuel,
but in taking away some fire."
Thomas Fuller


 

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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES

"In the past, this time of year, we've had a tendency to overdo. Too many obligations, too many parties, too many deadlines that dull our senses. Enjoy a steady flame but not a continual fire."

"Every invitation doesn't require your presence. Consider spending some quiet evenings at home with your feet up, relaxing by the fire -- not socializing and not working, just living."

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Admittedly, this is hard for me. I love going to parties and I love hosting them! But the idea of relaxing by the fire with my feet up sounds pretty dreamy too. I think I will try it! How about you?


Related posts: Grace Notes No. 1, Grace Notes No. 2, Grace Notes No. 3

Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.

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Friday, November 30, 2012

Grace Notes No. 3

"There are days when the great are near us,
when there is no frown on their brow.... There are days
which are the carnivals of the year."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
 
 
 


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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES

"Have a friend over for tea. Serve cinnamon melba toast and have a real talk. This time of the year when the pressure to spend money is intense, calm down and give the most precious gift. Give of yourself."

"Remember Emerson's advice: "In stripping time of its illusions, in seeking to find what is at the heart of the day, we come to the quality of the moment."
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Isn't this the truth? The best gift is quality time with people we love! I had lunch with two different girlfriends this week and it was wonderful. We had real conversations, which I greatly cherish! Two other friends contacted me today about scheduling tea dates. Even though I feel a bit harried right now, I know that taking the time for tea and a real conversation will feed my soul.
 
What feeds your soul?


Related posts: Grace Notes No. 1, Grace Notes No. 2

Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.

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Thursday, November 29, 2012

Grace Notes No. 2

"Zen is a way of liberation, concerned not
with discovering what is good or bad or 
advantageous, but what is."
Alan Watts
 
 
 
 
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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES
 

"For most people, this season is the most stressful, anxious time of the year.
Be kind to yourself. Accept the way you feel. It's all right."

"As you begin the frantic pace, remember there are 365 days in the year.
You can't do everything at the end. Simplify."
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Related post: Grace Notes No. 1

Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.

Photo: The Paper Studio and Letterpress Central



Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Grace Notes No.1

"I believe....that every human mind feels pleasure
in doing good to another."
Thomas Jefferson
 



Every morning I read an inspirational quote and practical tips for enjoying each day to the fullest from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes. It's a lovely, tiny book that provides "365 days of inpiration, serenity and inner grace." I love the nuggets of wisdom and I try not to miss a day. As we embark on the busiest time of the year, I will be sharing grace notes with you as they seem relevant and inspiring for enjoying this joyous, and hectic, holiday season.  Each post will include a thoughtful quote of the day and Alexandra's practical tips for how to truly live with grace.

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TODAY'S GRACE NOTES


"Take pleasure in reaching out and giving to others. Think of someone who is really needy and doesn't expect something from you. And surprise them!"

"Be sure your ribbon box has lots of pretty colors, designs and textures so you're ready to deck the halls and tie bows on tiny gifts."

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What is one thing you can do to surprise someone with a small gesture today? Drop a card in the mail, buy someone coffee, surprise someone with flowers, or simply call a friend you've been thinking about recently? The options are endless, and you truly will feel pleasure in sharing yourself in this way.


P.S. Grace Notes is a great gift for a friend or stocking stuffer!


Excerpts from Alexandra Stoddard's Grace Notes.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Happy Thanksgiving Eve!


Hello friends! I've missed you. Life has been busy. I've been living more and blogging less. I miss connecting in this way. I have a few quiet moments to myself this afternoon and I wanted to share this charming Thanksgiving party invitation from 1939 with you. I spotted it in the window of an antique shop in my neighborhood last night and was absolutely charmed by the thought of a Thanksgiving Party at 8:30 O'clock in 1939.  I wonder what the guests were wearing. What kind of music was played, a live band for sure. What kind of cocktails were served. It took me back to a different time. I've actually never heard of a Thanksgiving Party. We're going to a Thanksgiving Eve cocktail party tonight which I'm very excited about. And I'm looking forward to relaxing, playing, eating and celebrating over the next few days. I have so much to be thankful for! Cheers friends. xoxo.

Friday, October 12, 2012

Autumn is...

"...a second spring when every leaf is a flower."
Albert Camus, French existentialist author & philosopher


Spring is my favorite season and I have written about it many times on this blog. But autumn is a close second. After a wonderful, long Indian summer, autumn is finally here in Seattle and I am loving it. To me, autumn is a time to hunker down, light candles, bundle up in warm clothes and eat yummy food.

Orange cords have been my go-to pants for autumn for several years now...

Matchstick cord
J. Crew
 
I love bundling up in a cozy cashmere scarf that I don't want to take it off until spring!

Cashmere scarf
J. Crew

And a pair of fabulous waterproof boots that can I can wear to drop my daugther off at school and also to a business meeting.... I love my classic riding boots but I am in the market for a new pair of great boots right now and I'm taking suggestions!

Steve Madden
 
On the food front, nothing says autumn to me like pumpkin muffins! I'm not embarrassed to admit I use the Trader Joe's Pumpkin Bread and Muffin Mix. It is simply delicious!
 
 
And while I am at it, you must give the Trader Joe's Pumpkin Ice Cream a try. It is to die for!
 
 
I also love pumpkin soup and anything with butternut squash this time of year. I had a fabulous roasted butternut squash, pear and arugula salad for lunch yesteday at the Skillet Diner in Seattle. It not only tasted great but it was so beautiful that I had to take a picture of it.
 
 
I've seen a lot of new and fun ideas for decorating pumpkins this year. I love the chevron design below... lots more ideas here.
 
 
And autumn is the time of the year when we get our family photos professionally taken. We missed last year, but we've done it every year since Sofia was a baby. We try to time them for when the leaves are at their best and it's not raining. (Not an easy task in Seattle!) We're scheduled for next weekend so wish us luck!
 
 
Speaking of hunkering down, I've recently started a new consulting project that I am very excited about! I'm doing the communications and PR for the Fred Hutchison Cancer Research Center's new signature cycling event, called Obliteride, to raise money to obliterate cancer.... I am passionate about the cause and excited to be part of an amazing team.  So, if my blog posts become even more infrequent you will know what I'm up to. (Isn't it perfect that they designed their logo in "my" colors?!)





What is autumn to you?
 
 


Friday, September 28, 2012

Nature's Colorful Gifts



My friend Jeanne wrote a charming blog post last week about dahlias. She thinks that dahlias are like the sunset of summer and the sunrise of fall. I love that thought! I also love the dahlia garden at Volunteer Park in Seattle. So I took my camera and captured some of the amazing and unique dahlia blooms to share with you. Won't you join me for a little walk through the dahlias? If you look closely at the picture above you will see that it is called "Sunset"... and also notice the bee hard at work!


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
The colors of nature are such a gift! Isn't every bloom just beautiful and unique? Do you have a favorite?
 
 

Sunday, September 23, 2012

Welcome Fall!


I'm not one to decorate my home seasonally, although I do admire people who do it tastefully. But I do love to change the wreath on my front door when the season changes. It's a great (and easy) way to welcome the new season and guests to our home. So to ring in the first day of fall on Saturday, Sofia and I made a monogram leaf wreath and also one for my mom for her birthday. It is a really fun and easy DIY project that I enjoy every time I walk through my front door. Follow these easy steps to welcome fall into your home too.

Supplies:
Paper mache letter (from a craft store like Jo-ann's)
Brown acrylic craft paint
Paint brush
Silk leaves in a variety of colors and sizes - or real leaves are even better if you have them
Glue gun
Ribbon


1. Start by painting the letter.



"H" is for Hermes for my mom.


"A" is for Anderson (and Amy too!).

 
 
2. Select your leaves, keeping in mind a variety of sizes and colors.




3. Arrange the leaves on the letter and secure them in place with a hot glue gun.



Half-way there...

 
 
4. Attach a coordinating ribbon and, voila, it's ready to hang on your door. We delivered the "H" to my mom to help her welcome fall into her home.
 

 

And little Miss Sofia was pretty darn excited to put the "A" on our front door.

 
 
I hope you all are enjoying the changes that fall brings and welcoming it with open arms! From my home to yours, welcome fall!


Thursday, September 13, 2012

Amazing Women No. 7: Lara Anderson

 


Lara Anderson
wife, mother, shop owner, interior designer, artist, inventor (wow!)
Olympia, WA
www.rdshady.com

 
I am beyond excited to feature Lara Lathrop Anderson in my Amazing Women series. It has been a long time coming - we have been friends since first grade. Lara is one of the most creative and stylish people I know. And she is one of my oldest and dearest friends! Although we share the same last name, we aren't blood related (we both married great Swedish guys!), but we are like sisters! I am so lucky to have her in my life and I'm excited for you to learn more about her thoughts on design, color and life!  
 
Lara has always been up on the latest fashion and interior design trends, usually spotting them well before they become mainstream. As a child, she would go to her friends’ homes and rearrange the furniture in their bedrooms, hang things on the walls and happily create what she thought were beautiful spaces. This lead her to study interior design and eventually open a home decor and furnishings shop. For the last five years, together with her mom, she has been running Red Door Interiors, in Olympia, Washington (our hometown); designing and building a gorgeous home; and raising two young boys. Earlier this year, she launched a very cool, first-of-its-kind interchangeable lampshade system that you can read about below.
 
 
Q. What color and design trends are you seeing for fall, and which ones are you most excited about?
A. I am loving the use of grays with vibrant colors like plum and yellow. Generally I think of gray as a cool color but when you combine it with a color that puts off heat, it’s like “wow!” You can feel the energy that vibrates from the combination. Regarding general home décor trends, I am seeing eclectic mixing of old and new pieces. This is nothing new to me, this is how I feel comfortable in my own home with quirky inherited pieces that I blend with highly polished metals or wood that offer texture and a sculptural quality. We all live eclectically naturally but putting it all together successfully can be difficult. Trust your gut on this. You can see more fall trends Lara is excited about on her website.
Q. What is your favorite color combination for fall and why? Does it change with the seasons or do you have a go-to favorite(s)?
A. Like I mentioned before I am loving cool grays with warm plums and yellows. This color combo warms me up like a cozy blanket does. I absolutely believe that we are drawn to different color combinations seasonally. I naturally gravitate toward greens but during the fall and winter months I feel a need to add warm colors to my surroundings. I revisit my Spring and Summer “bold and energizing” colors when it is warmer outside.

Q. Where do you get your inspiration for design?
A. Everywhere, truly, I can be on a walk outside, thumbing through a current fashion or home décor publication, or watching a movie when I find inspiration. My brain is wired in a way to take note and the next thing I know I find it in my creations at Red Door or what I present to a client.
 
Q. Do you have a mantra or favorite quote?
A. I love quotes so picking one is difficult but relating to interior design I would have to go with:
“Whoever said that pleasure wasn’t functional?” - Charles Eames
“A house is a machine for living.” - Le Corbusier
 
 The "Whimsy" RD Shady collection incorporates Lara's favorite colors for fall.
 
Q. Why did you invent RD Shady? (RD Shadies are the first-of-its-kind interchangeable lampshade system that Lara and her mom invented. You can see her talking about this ingenious invention here.)
A. While owning our home décor gift store, Red Door Interiors, we were always coming across fabulous vintage lamps at estate sales. All these treasures needed were an updated lamp shade. Finding attractive lampshades was both difficult and expensive. The light bulb came on, as they say, and I wondered “What if lampshades could be interchangeable in fabulous designer fabrics and voila, RD Shady was born!

Q. What is your favorite thing about owning your own business?
A. My time ... my schedule is invaluable. I can take time off for the family at a moment’s notice, I love that freedom.
 
Q. Do you have anything else to add about design, art, fashion, color, life?
A. Just to speak to my passion of creating beautiful spaces for people. I truly believe that our surroundings affect us positively or negatively and I want to promote the idea of keeping your surroundings, aka your home, beautiful and organized. In doing so, you can actually make yourself feel better and people will want to join you in your personally fabulous space.
 


Lara is running a fun "Design an RD Shady Room" contest on Pinterest through this Saturday, September 15. It's fun and easy and promises to get your creative juices flowing! Check out the details here.

Thursday, September 6, 2012

Something Blue


Today is my 15th wedding anniversary! I love milestone celebrations and today feels like a pretty significant one! It brings back so many wonderful memories of planning our wedding and our wedding day, on the shores of our favorite place on earth, Lake Tahoe. It's fun to take a walk down memory lane and to share a few pictures with you.

I apologize for the poor picture quality - we were married before digital photography was widely used and I don't have digital versions of these pictures. I do, however, have an old-school photo album that these pictures are from! Enjoy.

 
 
One of my favorite things about planning any kind of event is, not surprisingly, choosing the color palette. My wedding colors were hydrangea blue and light chartreuse green. We also had "something blue" covered with the stunning blue color of Lake Tahoe and the sapphires in my wedding band.
 
 
I also love choosing printed invitations. We had ours letterpressed on an old press in Olympia and then I watercolored the hydrangea petals blue and the leaves green. I also hand calligraphed all of the envelopes. It was a labor of love, for sure!
 
 
 
For "something old," I wore my mom's 1960's Jackie O-inspired wedding dress!
 
 
 
And "something borrowed" was my matron-of-honor Megan's veil. I am still close with all of my attendants and it warms my heart that they are still in my life and were part of our special day.


 
Here we are this year, 15 years later! Our wedding site is in the background. So fun to revisit this beautiful place!

I'm looking forward to many more milestone celebrations with my best friend and the love of my life, Geoffrey Kyle Anderson!